The list strangers are allowed to see

Nine wishes, three of them more than once

This is the page linked under the video. The states sit on every wish, so that nobody buys something somebody else has already taken care of.

The last row is the case a plain cart cannot picture: the soundproofing comes from a hardware store. It is on the list anyway, because otherwise two viewers set off independently. A wish outside the shop can be taken over without any money running through your shop.

They stay anonymous although delivery goes straight to them

This is the point the occasion stands or falls on. Without masking they would have to either give their address to strangers or give up direct delivery.

On the list

Only the display name, the channel name for instance. No first name, no surname, no town

In the cart

The same line. The viewer sees that delivery is masked, and does not see where it goes

On the invoice

Their own address as the billing address, the owner's nowhere

What stays real

The country and an empty postcode, so that shipping and tax remain correct. The parcel service gets the right address

Delivery note yes, invoice no. The invoice names the giver with their address. If it is in the parcel, the owner knows the sender - usually unwanted here. How you set that is under Shipping to the list owner.

Anonymous in both directions

It is not only the owner who wants to stay unrecognised. A viewer may prefer to give without being named as well.

The box at checkout

The giver decides whether their name is passed on

What the owner sees then

"A giver" or the first name with an initial – that is your setting

The email address

The owner never gets to see it, not even for givers who are not anonymous

The thank-you note

Runs through the shop. They say thank you without knowing an address

Three things nobody needs at a wedding

A list seen by eighty invited guests moderates itself. A list under a video does not. These three places are therefore the important ones here.

Report link

Any visitor can send a list to review. The report goes into your moderation, not to the owner

Word filter

Fifty terms are included. A hit blocks nothing; it puts the list forward as a review note

Block with a reason

The only decision that actually takes a list offline. The owner is shown your reason

Deliberately not on the list: a password. It would work, but it makes no sense here – putting a password on a list everybody is meant to see, and then writing it next to the link, protects nothing. More on the review list in the chapter The administration.

Four places

The defaults carry almost all of this case. These four are worth setting deliberately.

Address masking

On out of the box. Without it this occasion does not work

Giver anonymity

Decide how an anonymous giver appears to the owner

Report link

Switch it on for lists shared in public

Allow reserving

So that a viewer can hold a more expensive item until they can afford it

A date is usually superfluous here: a setup grows over months. Without one the list runs indefinitely, and the reminders that hang on it fall away by themselves.